We are currently on our fifth week in the new school year. This year is keeping me jumping with three children and an on-the-move baby. Things can get interesting real quick. It is becoming a lesson for me and the children to be more flexible and not to expect everything to be perfect. There's that word again - perfect. When it comes to my children I set the bar high in my ideals of how I envisioned our homeschooling journey to be. I tend to be an overwhelmed perfectionist, meaning that sometimes I will give up or give in because no matter how much I try it still will not be perfect. Everyday I have to ask God for the wisdom to teach my children and His love to pour out of me onto them. Homeschooling for us is more than just academic. It is just as much if not more about showing and introducing my children to my Savior.
Our character trait that we are currently working on is DILIGENCE. The definitions that we are using comes from two homeschooling moms. The first one is from Marilyn Boyer at The Learning Parent, and the second one is from Heather McMillan at We Choose Virtues. We have been using the Character Studies from The Learning Parent since the first year that we started homeschooling. I absolutely love her character trait curriculum. The other one from We Choose Virtues is new to us this year. I actually won a set of her character trait cards in a contest hosted by The Old Schoolhouse Magazine. So now for the definitions.... The first one defines diligence as "doing my very best at very task given to me". The second one defines being diligent as "I start fast, work hard and finish strong". Each one also has a memory verse to help your child to learn. We have focused on the character trait of OBEDIENCE for awhile and from time to time review it.
If you would like to learn more about either of the above mentioned companies, then I have included links for you.
The Learning Parent - Marilyn Boyer
http://www.characterconcepts.com/store/
Ok. So apparently they have changed their name to Character Concepts. The reference made to their character curriculum can be found in their store. It should be apart of their Preschool Package.
We Choose Virtues - Heather McMillan
http://wechoosevirtues.com/
And of course here is the link to one of my favorite homeschooling magazines. You can also read the current issue for FREE.
The Old Schoolhouse Magazine
http://www.theoldschoolhouse.com/
Here is a picture from our first day of school.
Just FYI, I am not being compensated from either of the above companies. I am just sharing what we are learning. However, I love talking to other homeschool moms about what they are using in their homeschools. Have a blessed week!
Tuesday
Sunday
It's Almost That Wonderful Time of the Year!
One of my favorite times of the year is "Back to School". Fall is definitely my favorite season of the year!!! But I am also in love with the cooler weather, the changing color of the leaves, the game of football, and of course school supplies! I still get excited to buy school supplies even if it is for my children. There is a wonderful feeling of getting to start over and the challenges of getting to learn new things that excite me.
So we are in count down mode for our first day back to school. This year I will have a 2nd grader, 1st grader/finishing up some Kindergarten work, a Pre-K5, and a 14 month-old baby. This is going to be an interesting year because the older children are getting older and having a baby in the mix. I will be praying for extra patience and wisdom to know how we need to schedule our school times and "mommy and me" times. I love all my children, and I want them to know that I love each of them individually. My biggest goal or area of growth that I would like to see is that the children and I memorize several scriptures from the Bible. It is my prayer that the children desire a relationship with Jesus and become a follower of Him.
I need to get started with some more lesson plans and finish organizing the children's binders. Oh my! So much to do and so little time!!!
So we are in count down mode for our first day back to school. This year I will have a 2nd grader, 1st grader/finishing up some Kindergarten work, a Pre-K5, and a 14 month-old baby. This is going to be an interesting year because the older children are getting older and having a baby in the mix. I will be praying for extra patience and wisdom to know how we need to schedule our school times and "mommy and me" times. I love all my children, and I want them to know that I love each of them individually. My biggest goal or area of growth that I would like to see is that the children and I memorize several scriptures from the Bible. It is my prayer that the children desire a relationship with Jesus and become a follower of Him.
I need to get started with some more lesson plans and finish organizing the children's binders. Oh my! So much to do and so little time!!!
Tuesday
Are You Considering Homeschooling?
I remember when I decided that one day I was going to homeschool my child(ren). I wasn't even married or had any children of my own, but I remember what impressed me so much that I started praying about it.
As a teenager I worked in the children's department of my local library. I loved working there. When I was in high school I would get to work around 1:30 to 2:00 in the afternoon. Because I was there before 3:00 pm, I had the privilege of getting to know some of the homeschooling families in my area. I was intrigued by the family dynamics and the strong family ties, even amongst the children. The moms and older children would collect the books for the topics being studied while the smaller children played together with the puzzles and blocks available. I just remember being so impressed with what I saw every time one of the families would visit the library. They were planting seeds of homeschooling in my life without ever knowing it. I actually ended up homeschooling my last two years of high school and loved it.
Once I started college I was torn between a few different majors. I couldn't decide if I wanted to be a librarian, a teacher or a profession in the medical field. First I went to a local two-year college while continuing to work at the library and continuing to be around those wonderful homeschooling families. After those two years I transferred to a four year college to finish my studies. Eventually I decided to pursue a teaching degree because I thought that was what I needed to be a successful homeschool mama one day and because I liked knowing that teachers had the summer off. : )
Fast forward few years. I was now married, expecting my first child, just graduated from college with a Bachelors of Science in Childhood Education, moving from one city to another, and starting my first teaching job. I was stressed and excited all at the same time with all the new beginnings my husband and I were embarking on together. And still all I could think about was all the grand learning adventures I was going to have with my soon to be born baby, a.k.a "homeschooling".
After my first sweet baby was born I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that I was going to homeschool her. It was such a strong desire that it became my conviction. But looking back I think that part of it was because I was scared to let anyone else influence her or raise her. I wanted more than anything to be the one to teach her everything about God, the Bible and the world that He created. I started pouring over homeschool curriculum catalogs because I was fascinated by the choices available "to give your child the very best start". I lived, dreamed and breathed homeschooling. Scary, right? Yup!!! If I could go back in time to have a heart-to-heart conversation with my 23 year old self, I would tell myself to let it go and give it to God. I was so wrapped up in planning and finding all these cute ideas that I let some of the most precious time with my baby slip through my hands. I love planning things and finding ways to organize my planning, but I have had to learn (and still learning) to just enjoy my children and having the privilege to getting to know each of them.
So here is a list that I would have given myself if I could have that conversation:
1. Pray!!! Surrender your desires and ideas about homeschooling to God. Let Him lead and guide you on the path that He has planned for you and your family. Pray with your spouse too!!
2. Find a mentor homeschool mom. Just like my time around other homeschooling families at the library, spending time with a homeschooling mom is giving you an opportunity to see it in "real-life".
3. Read a few books about starting homeschooling. Your local library should have a wealth of information about homeschooling and things to consider.
4. Include your spouse. Do NOT however bombard him or her with everything that you are learning about homeschooling. Have open discussions. Listen to each other's concerns and then pray some more. This also includes looking at your financial situation.
5. Enjoy each moment with your child(ren). Make memories. Go places. Do things. Take plenty of pictures. Read books and more books and more books.
6. Having a degree is education is NOT necessary to be a successful homeschool parent. God equips those He calls.
Deciding on the best educational approach for your family is a very personal choice. Homeschooling is the path that God is leading my family on currently. I officially started homeschooling my oldest child when she was a little older than 3 years old and now homeschooling three of my children. Do I worry if I'm doing everything perfectly? Some days but I have learned to trust God on this journey. If you are considering homeschooling and would like to chat about it just leave me a comment.
As a teenager I worked in the children's department of my local library. I loved working there. When I was in high school I would get to work around 1:30 to 2:00 in the afternoon. Because I was there before 3:00 pm, I had the privilege of getting to know some of the homeschooling families in my area. I was intrigued by the family dynamics and the strong family ties, even amongst the children. The moms and older children would collect the books for the topics being studied while the smaller children played together with the puzzles and blocks available. I just remember being so impressed with what I saw every time one of the families would visit the library. They were planting seeds of homeschooling in my life without ever knowing it. I actually ended up homeschooling my last two years of high school and loved it.
Once I started college I was torn between a few different majors. I couldn't decide if I wanted to be a librarian, a teacher or a profession in the medical field. First I went to a local two-year college while continuing to work at the library and continuing to be around those wonderful homeschooling families. After those two years I transferred to a four year college to finish my studies. Eventually I decided to pursue a teaching degree because I thought that was what I needed to be a successful homeschool mama one day and because I liked knowing that teachers had the summer off. : )
Fast forward few years. I was now married, expecting my first child, just graduated from college with a Bachelors of Science in Childhood Education, moving from one city to another, and starting my first teaching job. I was stressed and excited all at the same time with all the new beginnings my husband and I were embarking on together. And still all I could think about was all the grand learning adventures I was going to have with my soon to be born baby, a.k.a "homeschooling".
After my first sweet baby was born I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that I was going to homeschool her. It was such a strong desire that it became my conviction. But looking back I think that part of it was because I was scared to let anyone else influence her or raise her. I wanted more than anything to be the one to teach her everything about God, the Bible and the world that He created. I started pouring over homeschool curriculum catalogs because I was fascinated by the choices available "to give your child the very best start". I lived, dreamed and breathed homeschooling. Scary, right? Yup!!! If I could go back in time to have a heart-to-heart conversation with my 23 year old self, I would tell myself to let it go and give it to God. I was so wrapped up in planning and finding all these cute ideas that I let some of the most precious time with my baby slip through my hands. I love planning things and finding ways to organize my planning, but I have had to learn (and still learning) to just enjoy my children and having the privilege to getting to know each of them.
So here is a list that I would have given myself if I could have that conversation:
1. Pray!!! Surrender your desires and ideas about homeschooling to God. Let Him lead and guide you on the path that He has planned for you and your family. Pray with your spouse too!!
2. Find a mentor homeschool mom. Just like my time around other homeschooling families at the library, spending time with a homeschooling mom is giving you an opportunity to see it in "real-life".
3. Read a few books about starting homeschooling. Your local library should have a wealth of information about homeschooling and things to consider.
4. Include your spouse. Do NOT however bombard him or her with everything that you are learning about homeschooling. Have open discussions. Listen to each other's concerns and then pray some more. This also includes looking at your financial situation.
5. Enjoy each moment with your child(ren). Make memories. Go places. Do things. Take plenty of pictures. Read books and more books and more books.
6. Having a degree is education is NOT necessary to be a successful homeschool parent. God equips those He calls.
Deciding on the best educational approach for your family is a very personal choice. Homeschooling is the path that God is leading my family on currently. I officially started homeschooling my oldest child when she was a little older than 3 years old and now homeschooling three of my children. Do I worry if I'm doing everything perfectly? Some days but I have learned to trust God on this journey. If you are considering homeschooling and would like to chat about it just leave me a comment.
Monday
Busy As Bees
When I was younger I could not wait until I was grown up and could do my own thing. I had all these big dreams and high ideals. I was going to travel all over the world, discover new things and learn all that I could. I am all grown up (well at least I think I am) and I do my own thing. I still have big dreams, and I am working on some of them now. I still have high ideals of what I would like to see happen, but I am also learning to accept that sometimes life just doesn't happen the way I had planned. I am learning that sometimes I have to just roll with the punches so to speak. I take one step at a time, one day at a time, and sometimes just one minute at a time.
Slowly, slowly we are making progress on our house. I will be so glad to just have it to the point to move in. It has been difficult to live in one house and have most of our stuff in the other house. If we could just stop finding leaks that would be great! It has been a long adventure that I will be glad to see finished! I need some peace and a place to call my own.
Schooling has been different, again, this year for us. We alternate working on a different subject each week. Sometimes we are all about math, all day, every day for a week. I am still learning how to organize my time so that I can offer individualized teaching to my two children who are on different levels for math and phonics instruction. It has been a learning curve for me to see just how different my children are when it comes to learning styles and preferences. What worked in the classroom of 15 students does not work at home with my two who are currently the only ones old enough to "do school". I have just started reading one of Diana Waring's book on homeschooling. I am excited to see what gems of wisdom I can learn from her.
And then spring has brought more than green grass, flowers blooming and birds singing. It has brought allergies and yucky colds. My little ones have been sick for at least a week and a half. I have been up most nights, and then had to turn around and be up early the next with either a sick kid or a teething baby. I am busy, but I am right where I need to be. I use to think that if I wasn't doing great and big things then I wasn't living my life to the fullest. I am living my life to the fullest! I am taking care of my family, homeschooling, working part-time, working on my house, cooking, cleaning, and the list keeps going on. Is this what I dreamed life would be like when I grew up? No. But it is what it is. I can't and don't want to waste my time on the what-ifs, could-have-been or any other distraction from what is before me. I want to run the race set before me! I am living my life everyday so that God gets the glory and recognition because without Him this life is not worth living.
So how have things been your way? I hope wonderful. I hope you find the good and the beautiful that this life has to offer and hold on to it. Hold on to Jesus. He is my hope and my anchor.
Slowly, slowly we are making progress on our house. I will be so glad to just have it to the point to move in. It has been difficult to live in one house and have most of our stuff in the other house. If we could just stop finding leaks that would be great! It has been a long adventure that I will be glad to see finished! I need some peace and a place to call my own.
Schooling has been different, again, this year for us. We alternate working on a different subject each week. Sometimes we are all about math, all day, every day for a week. I am still learning how to organize my time so that I can offer individualized teaching to my two children who are on different levels for math and phonics instruction. It has been a learning curve for me to see just how different my children are when it comes to learning styles and preferences. What worked in the classroom of 15 students does not work at home with my two who are currently the only ones old enough to "do school". I have just started reading one of Diana Waring's book on homeschooling. I am excited to see what gems of wisdom I can learn from her.
And then spring has brought more than green grass, flowers blooming and birds singing. It has brought allergies and yucky colds. My little ones have been sick for at least a week and a half. I have been up most nights, and then had to turn around and be up early the next with either a sick kid or a teething baby. I am busy, but I am right where I need to be. I use to think that if I wasn't doing great and big things then I wasn't living my life to the fullest. I am living my life to the fullest! I am taking care of my family, homeschooling, working part-time, working on my house, cooking, cleaning, and the list keeps going on. Is this what I dreamed life would be like when I grew up? No. But it is what it is. I can't and don't want to waste my time on the what-ifs, could-have-been or any other distraction from what is before me. I want to run the race set before me! I am living my life everyday so that God gets the glory and recognition because without Him this life is not worth living.
So how have things been your way? I hope wonderful. I hope you find the good and the beautiful that this life has to offer and hold on to it. Hold on to Jesus. He is my hope and my anchor.
Hebrews 6:19a "We have this hope as an anchor for the soul, firm and secure."
Spring Time And Other Happenings
Well we have been so busy lately. Spring has arrived. The flowers and trees have bloomed in all their glory. The sun is shinning a lot more. (Praise the Lord!) And living in the South means more rain. There are some days were it doesn't bother me, but if you have children you know that a week with rain can make things tense with all the bound-up energy. (Can I get an Amen?)
This is an up-date of where I have been which is why I have not been here. (sad face) We are slowly, very slowly, still working on our little place called "Home Sweet Home". The saying that home projects take longer than expected and cost more than expected really does not do justice until you have lived it. My hubby and I have since learned that we would NOT make good carpenters or construction workers or plumbers (at least not me). Now painting interior, I can do that and actually don't mind. It is just the other stuff. The stuff that is needed to actually live in a house. I just have to keep trusting God that we will be able to get it done soon. It has been tough to say the least, especially with little children and two of whom I am homeschooling.
I am trying to view this as a lesson that I can teach them such as patience, determination and perseverance. I hope and pray that one day my children will have good work ethics and remember to whom they are actually working for. Life is a lot like working on my house. Everyday I am working on my relationship with God and my family. I don't do everything right, but I know how to find out if I am and make it right. My Bible is my "blueprint" for how I should be living everyday so that I can bring Him glory and so that I can point my children to the Savior. It is my hope and prayer that I live a life that engages my children to want to be a Christian. I remember one of the first times that I heard a seasoned, well-know homeschool mom say that homeschooling won't save your children. I sat in shock with my mouth open until I let the words sink in. The Holy Spirit draws man unto Himself, not the task of educating my children at home. Yeah! It was a kick in the gut, but it was a good thing. I don't view the very task of teaching the ABC's higher than building a relationship with my children. Even as a homeschool mama I had to have my priorities in order and let Him lead our homeschool. If He is not in the middle of what I am doing then I am laboring in vain. I don't want to do that. I want my life to count for something. I want to be used of God even in the little everyday things, especially when it comes to my children.
This is just an example of when I ask God to do that very thing, and He directs to path of my post. I believe in a living God that wants a personal relationship with me and you. We just have to be willing to yield to His voice, plan and purpose of our lives.
And in closing I want to says, "Thanks!" to my loyal readers. Please forgive me for being absent. I will try to do better about posting more regularly. I have so much that I want to share and so little time. I will be squeezing in every available minute to be writing more.
This is an up-date of where I have been which is why I have not been here. (sad face) We are slowly, very slowly, still working on our little place called "Home Sweet Home". The saying that home projects take longer than expected and cost more than expected really does not do justice until you have lived it. My hubby and I have since learned that we would NOT make good carpenters or construction workers or plumbers (at least not me). Now painting interior, I can do that and actually don't mind. It is just the other stuff. The stuff that is needed to actually live in a house. I just have to keep trusting God that we will be able to get it done soon. It has been tough to say the least, especially with little children and two of whom I am homeschooling.
I am trying to view this as a lesson that I can teach them such as patience, determination and perseverance. I hope and pray that one day my children will have good work ethics and remember to whom they are actually working for. Life is a lot like working on my house. Everyday I am working on my relationship with God and my family. I don't do everything right, but I know how to find out if I am and make it right. My Bible is my "blueprint" for how I should be living everyday so that I can bring Him glory and so that I can point my children to the Savior. It is my hope and prayer that I live a life that engages my children to want to be a Christian. I remember one of the first times that I heard a seasoned, well-know homeschool mom say that homeschooling won't save your children. I sat in shock with my mouth open until I let the words sink in. The Holy Spirit draws man unto Himself, not the task of educating my children at home. Yeah! It was a kick in the gut, but it was a good thing. I don't view the very task of teaching the ABC's higher than building a relationship with my children. Even as a homeschool mama I had to have my priorities in order and let Him lead our homeschool. If He is not in the middle of what I am doing then I am laboring in vain. I don't want to do that. I want my life to count for something. I want to be used of God even in the little everyday things, especially when it comes to my children.
This is just an example of when I ask God to do that very thing, and He directs to path of my post. I believe in a living God that wants a personal relationship with me and you. We just have to be willing to yield to His voice, plan and purpose of our lives.
And in closing I want to says, "Thanks!" to my loyal readers. Please forgive me for being absent. I will try to do better about posting more regularly. I have so much that I want to share and so little time. I will be squeezing in every available minute to be writing more.
Math, Oh My!
Well now it's been awhile!!! I can not believe that I didn't get this one posted when I finished it. My life has been crazy since the last time I was here. The first month of 2015 has come and gone.
Well here it is. My thoughts on math and our current curriculum.
This school year I decided to give Math-U-See a try. In previous school years I have used math workbooks from Wal-Mart and Dollar Tree. We have played different printable math games that I found online for free or board games with a math focus. The goal was more about giving them a basic foundation in early math. I spent time debating between the Singapore Math verses Horizons math verses Math-U-See.
Math-U-See is a hands-on math program using manipulatives. In the levels that we are using it is all about building it, saying it, and writing it. The lessons seem to flow quickly from one topic to the next. There are lesson on the current topic as well as review pages with mixed problems from the current topic and previous topic(s).
My 1st grader is using Alpha, and my kindergartener is using Primer. They both approach and learn math is completely differently ways. My daughter (at the tender age of 7) claims to not like math. My son is pretty much middle-of-the-road about the subject. He does not love it or hate it. My daughter had rather build with the manipulative blocks than build the answer for the problems. My son builds with the blocks too but the tens bars end up being swords for his toy men. My daughter is a very creative girl who gets bored easily with too much repetition. She is not a fan of review, but she has learned to slow down and focus better this year. My son usually is eager to complete his lessons as long as it does not take a long time. But I have a confession, I am not a fan of math myself. I had rather be curled up with a good book ANY DAY, but I understand the importance of learning math. So I try to always have and keep a good attitude about math.
Now that it is December I am in the process of mid-year evaluations. The kind where I think back to August and really evaluate rather something is working for us or not. Math-U-See is passing the grade for us this year.
I would love to hear from you! Which math curriculum do you use or don't use? Do you use a boxed kit or create your own lessons?
Well here it is. My thoughts on math and our current curriculum.
This school year I decided to give Math-U-See a try. In previous school years I have used math workbooks from Wal-Mart and Dollar Tree. We have played different printable math games that I found online for free or board games with a math focus. The goal was more about giving them a basic foundation in early math. I spent time debating between the Singapore Math verses Horizons math verses Math-U-See.
Math-U-See is a hands-on math program using manipulatives. In the levels that we are using it is all about building it, saying it, and writing it. The lessons seem to flow quickly from one topic to the next. There are lesson on the current topic as well as review pages with mixed problems from the current topic and previous topic(s).
My 1st grader is using Alpha, and my kindergartener is using Primer. They both approach and learn math is completely differently ways. My daughter (at the tender age of 7) claims to not like math. My son is pretty much middle-of-the-road about the subject. He does not love it or hate it. My daughter had rather build with the manipulative blocks than build the answer for the problems. My son builds with the blocks too but the tens bars end up being swords for his toy men. My daughter is a very creative girl who gets bored easily with too much repetition. She is not a fan of review, but she has learned to slow down and focus better this year. My son usually is eager to complete his lessons as long as it does not take a long time. But I have a confession, I am not a fan of math myself. I had rather be curled up with a good book ANY DAY, but I understand the importance of learning math. So I try to always have and keep a good attitude about math.
Now that it is December I am in the process of mid-year evaluations. The kind where I think back to August and really evaluate rather something is working for us or not. Math-U-See is passing the grade for us this year.
I would love to hear from you! Which math curriculum do you use or don't use? Do you use a boxed kit or create your own lessons?
Time Stand Still
This year has been busy to say the least, but since Thanksgiving it has gotten even busier. In some ways I am glad that this weekend is over, and in some ways I wish time would just stand still for just a little while.
On Sunday my youngest child turned five months. I mean where has the last five months gone. He is not a little, cute, snuggly newborn anymore. Well actually he is still pretty cute and loves to snuggle, he is just not so little anymore. He is so alert and loves interacting with his three older siblings, and they adore him as well. He is eating rice cereal now and trying to still up on his own. I find myself wishing that time would just stand still for even a little while so I can hold my sweet children a little longer.
Yes I celebrate with them when they learn something new or accomplish a task that was hard for them. I am their cheerleader and their biggest fan. But my mom heart breaks to see them grow up so fast. After my first child was born I remember older parents telling me (a lot it felt like) that "When your children are young they will be under your feet, but when they are grown they will step on your heart.". I have never quite understood what they were meaning. My children are not only "under my feet" but in my hair, busting through the bathroom door while I am still in there, asking me what feels like a thousand questions all the time, needing one more hug or sip of drink after bedtime. Children are curious by nature and learn best by being "under my feet". How many 7 and 6 year olds do you know that will fight over who gets to help mommy wash the dishes? Even through all of this, I wish time would stand still a little while longer.
I want my children to look back on your childhood and have sweet memories. I want them to remember that mommy was there for them, loving them, and trying to point them to Jesus. I want them to remember us praying together, learning together, and wanting to be in each other's company. I want them to remember the time spent cuddled up on the couch reading stacks and stacks of picture books. Or getting to build with blocks for hours while I read them a chapter book. I want them to remember park days and night time good-nights. I want to remember all these things as well and for time to stand still a little while longer so I can make more memories.
I would never have guessed just how hard motherhood could be at times, but it is so worth it!!! I would choose this life again if given the choice. There are times (many times) that I cry out to God asking Him to help me fulfill this high calling of motherhood. I am always asking Him to help me to be the person He created me to be, to love my husband, to love my children, to be a light for those in the dark. It is never about me, but about God getting all the glory for what He does through me. I am just a vessel willing and waiting to live out my grand adventure that He had planned for me before the foundations of this world.
There is a short poem that I read on blog or website awhile back. It is a reminder just how short of a time that we get with our children. It is the following:
Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.
The shopping’s not done and there’s nothing for stew
and out in the yard there’s a hullabaloo
but I’m playing Kanga and this is my Roo.
Look! Aren’t her eyes the most wonderful hue?
Lullaby, rockabye, lullaby loo.
On Sunday my youngest child turned five months. I mean where has the last five months gone. He is not a little, cute, snuggly newborn anymore. Well actually he is still pretty cute and loves to snuggle, he is just not so little anymore. He is so alert and loves interacting with his three older siblings, and they adore him as well. He is eating rice cereal now and trying to still up on his own. I find myself wishing that time would just stand still for even a little while so I can hold my sweet children a little longer.
Yes I celebrate with them when they learn something new or accomplish a task that was hard for them. I am their cheerleader and their biggest fan. But my mom heart breaks to see them grow up so fast. After my first child was born I remember older parents telling me (a lot it felt like) that "When your children are young they will be under your feet, but when they are grown they will step on your heart.". I have never quite understood what they were meaning. My children are not only "under my feet" but in my hair, busting through the bathroom door while I am still in there, asking me what feels like a thousand questions all the time, needing one more hug or sip of drink after bedtime. Children are curious by nature and learn best by being "under my feet". How many 7 and 6 year olds do you know that will fight over who gets to help mommy wash the dishes? Even through all of this, I wish time would stand still a little while longer.
I want my children to look back on your childhood and have sweet memories. I want them to remember that mommy was there for them, loving them, and trying to point them to Jesus. I want them to remember us praying together, learning together, and wanting to be in each other's company. I want them to remember the time spent cuddled up on the couch reading stacks and stacks of picture books. Or getting to build with blocks for hours while I read them a chapter book. I want them to remember park days and night time good-nights. I want to remember all these things as well and for time to stand still a little while longer so I can make more memories.
I would never have guessed just how hard motherhood could be at times, but it is so worth it!!! I would choose this life again if given the choice. There are times (many times) that I cry out to God asking Him to help me fulfill this high calling of motherhood. I am always asking Him to help me to be the person He created me to be, to love my husband, to love my children, to be a light for those in the dark. It is never about me, but about God getting all the glory for what He does through me. I am just a vessel willing and waiting to live out my grand adventure that He had planned for me before the foundations of this world.
There is a short poem that I read on blog or website awhile back. It is a reminder just how short of a time that we get with our children. It is the following:
Song For a Fifth Child, by Ruth Hamilton. 1958
Mother, oh Mother, come shake out your cloth
empty the dustpan, poison the moth,
hang out the washing and butter the bread,
sew on a button and make up a bed.
empty the dustpan, poison the moth,
hang out the washing and butter the bread,
sew on a button and make up a bed.
Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.
Oh, I’ve grown shiftless as Little Boy Blue
Lullaby, rockabye, lullaby loo.
Lullaby, rockabye, lullaby loo.
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due
Pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo.
Pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo.
The shopping’s not done and there’s nothing for stew
and out in the yard there’s a hullabaloo
but I’m playing Kanga and this is my Roo.
Look! Aren’t her eyes the most wonderful hue?
Lullaby, rockabye, lullaby loo.
The cleaning and scrubbing will wait till tomorrow,
for children grow up, as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs. Dust go to sleep.
I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.
for children grow up, as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down, cobwebs. Dust go to sleep.
I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.
Thursday
From Diapers to Big Kid Underpants
I have been a mommy for seven years and counting. I always wanted to have children. In my "perfect" view of my future, I wanted three to four children evenly spaced about three to four years apart in age. In reality I have four children who range in age of seven years down to almost five months old. Am I disappointed that my plans went awry? Am I upset that I have both boys and a girl and not just one gender or the other? I can answer both questions with a resounding, "NO!". The reason is because years ago I asked God to show me His plan and purpose for my life.
I have been changing diapers for the past seven years. Potty training less than that with two children still to train. Just like I have gone through stages spiritually myself I am still learning and growing everyday. I do not want to be the same person spiritually I was five years ago nor be the same five years into the future. I want to know and live by God's wisdom and not by my own wisdom. Only wisdom from God can help me to make the right choices. It is one of my prayers to grow in wisdom and knowledge of the truth.
Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)
11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
If I had done things my way, I would only have two children by this time in my life. I would have missed out on the joy of having my other two children. I would have missed out on part of my adventure that God has ever so loving been leading me.
Raising children has pushed me even more to be completely dependent of God. It has tested my faith to trust that He can meet not only all of my needs but the needs of my children as well. Our family has been drawn closer together as we pray for God's guidance, forgiveness, protection, wisdom and perseverance to keep going when the naysayers come with their negativity.
Proverbs 18:10 (NIV)
The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.
The name of the Lord is a fortified tower; the righteous run to it and are safe.
James 1:5 (NIV)
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.
Saturday
Thanksgiving Heart Story
So how was your Thanksgiving? I hope that you made wonderful memories, enjoyed spending time with family and friends, and ate some wonderful foods. But most of all I hope you took a minute or several to thank the One who has given you all the many reasons that you and I have to be thankful for this season.
I had the joy of cooking for my little family of six this year. My husband smoked a turkey for us. The children and I were "all hands on deck" in the kitchen. Together we made a few casseroles, dressing, gravy, peas and pies. It may have not been fancy, but it was a time to eat together as a family.
My husband said a prayer of thanks once we were all gathered around the table. He helped to fix each of the three older children's plates while I fed the youngest he first bowl of rice cereal. As they wereenjoying taste-testing the food on their plates, I asked each one of the children what they were thankful for this year. My oldest, proclaiming loudly, said she was thankful for her family, friends, church, and God. My next to youngest said that he was thankful for his sunglasses and a pattern block game; then he just smiled at me with pride about his answer. My second oldest didn't want to tell us. He said he was too hungry to think of a reason. (Go figure.) I then told them I was so very thankful for each of them as well as their daddy. Then I also said that I was thankful for each year that I had been blessed with since the birth of my oldest child. (I will have to write about that in another post because it is a praise story in itself.) Finally it was my husband's turn. He began saying he was thankful for family, the food, a house, his job and a few other things. Then he stopped to clear his throat before saying that he was thankful for God and His forgiveness, mercy and love. One of the children noticed that daddy was getting "water" in his eyes.
That was just one of the moments that I stopped and silently thanked God for a husband who is not afraid to live his faith in front of his wife and children. I am thankful that I married a man who is a Christian. No, he is not perfect nor am I. Does he get it right all the time? No, but he is quick to ask for forgiveness. Whether he knows it or not, he is admired and loved by his wife and children.
Later in the evening the children and I piled up in my bed to finish reading our Thanksgiving chapter book. This year I read, "Thanksgiving on Thursday, Magic Tree House #27" by Mary Pope Osborne. It took two days for us to read this book from beginning to end. I enjoyed reading this book to the children, and for the most part I think they liked the book also. I liked that the chapters were short enough to get to a stopping point because on the first day of reading I was running between cooking and reading. I love reading books whether for my children's enjoyment, my enjoyment or for learning something new. Just one of the many reasons I love being am to homeschool my children. I get another chance to learn about this wonderful world that God created.
Even though we had a small, non-fancy Thanksgiving we are blessed. We have each other and love one another. My husband and I hope to instill in our children the blessed gift of family, and that they will cherish that gift for years to come.
I had the joy of cooking for my little family of six this year. My husband smoked a turkey for us. The children and I were "all hands on deck" in the kitchen. Together we made a few casseroles, dressing, gravy, peas and pies. It may have not been fancy, but it was a time to eat together as a family.
My husband said a prayer of thanks once we were all gathered around the table. He helped to fix each of the three older children's plates while I fed the youngest he first bowl of rice cereal. As they were
That was just one of the moments that I stopped and silently thanked God for a husband who is not afraid to live his faith in front of his wife and children. I am thankful that I married a man who is a Christian. No, he is not perfect nor am I. Does he get it right all the time? No, but he is quick to ask for forgiveness. Whether he knows it or not, he is admired and loved by his wife and children.
Later in the evening the children and I piled up in my bed to finish reading our Thanksgiving chapter book. This year I read, "Thanksgiving on Thursday, Magic Tree House #27" by Mary Pope Osborne. It took two days for us to read this book from beginning to end. I enjoyed reading this book to the children, and for the most part I think they liked the book also. I liked that the chapters were short enough to get to a stopping point because on the first day of reading I was running between cooking and reading. I love reading books whether for my children's enjoyment, my enjoyment or for learning something new. Just one of the many reasons I love being am to homeschool my children. I get another chance to learn about this wonderful world that God created.
Even though we had a small, non-fancy Thanksgiving we are blessed. We have each other and love one another. My husband and I hope to instill in our children the blessed gift of family, and that they will cherish that gift for years to come.
Tuesday
My Thankful List
Thanksgiving for me is always a time to reflect upon another year and count my many blessings. I have had a good year for the most part of 2014. It has been better than 2013 in many ways. Every time this past year that I would get discouraged I would say out loud, "This year is going to be better than last year!". Sometimes I would have to remind myself several times in a day. But for now I would like to make a list of the things that I am THANKFUL for.
I hope that you have a wonderful Thanksgiving this year. Remember to slow down and make memories because when the day is over you don't get a second chance.
- My God and Savior
- For God's forgiveness
- For my parents
- For my older brother and his family
- For my younger brother
- For my husband
- For my sweet children
- For my extended family
- For my friends
- For my church and church family
- For a place to call home
- For food to eat and clean water to drink
- For nice clothes to wear and shoes for my feet
- For a van to carry me and my family places
- For our cat and two dogs
- For my husband's job
- For money to pay the bills
- For the ability to learn
- For my five senses
- For my health
- For books to read
- For libraries
- For being able to homeschool my children
- For other homeschooling moms' blogs/websites
I hope that you have a wonderful Thanksgiving this year. Remember to slow down and make memories because when the day is over you don't get a second chance.
Psalm 100:4 (KJV)
"Enter into His gates with thanksgiving, and into His courts with praise: be thankful unto Him, and bless His name."Wednesday
A Great Teacher is Always Learning
I believe that a great teacher is always learning. This teacher never feels like the quest for knowledge is finished. There is always something new to explore or ideas already learned to be explored again. While I was in college going through my childhood education program, we had to keep an online page with the different things that we were learning about. This was apart of our on-going professional development. For me it was more than just professional. Even from a young age I wanted to be a teacher. I have always enjoyed learning and reading. It is just what I do. Some of my hobbies include reading and reading and more reading.
Even before my first child was born I knew that I wanted to homeschool any children that my husband and I had. So I started my research then to learn all that I could about the task of homeschooling and the young child. And to this day I am still reading a variety of books about the topic of homeschooling, learning styles, child development, parenting from a Christian perspective, and so on. Over the last year and half I have found some great blogs and/or websites by other homeschooling moms. I appreciate the time these moms have put into sharing with the rest of the world about their homeschooling journey. I have gleamed so much from them. They are apart of the reason why I am giving blogging a chance.
I have read some great books to help me with this important task of educating my children. Here is just a short list of some of the books that I have read or I am currently reading:
Even before my first child was born I knew that I wanted to homeschool any children that my husband and I had. So I started my research then to learn all that I could about the task of homeschooling and the young child. And to this day I am still reading a variety of books about the topic of homeschooling, learning styles, child development, parenting from a Christian perspective, and so on. Over the last year and half I have found some great blogs and/or websites by other homeschooling moms. I appreciate the time these moms have put into sharing with the rest of the world about their homeschooling journey. I have gleamed so much from them. They are apart of the reason why I am giving blogging a chance.
I have read some great books to help me with this important task of educating my children. Here is just a short list of some of the books that I have read or I am currently reading:
- "The Way They Learn" by Cynthia Ulrich Tobias
- "Homeschooling Gifted and Advanced Learners" by Cindy West
- "Homepreschool and Beyond" by Susan Lemons
- "Educating the WholeHearted Child" by Sally Clarkson
- "A Charlotte Mason Education: A Home Schooling How-To Manual" by Catherine Levison
- "More Charlotte Mason Education: A Home Schooling How-To Manual" by Catherine Levison
Tuesday
Proverb Wisdom Cookies
Have you ever eaten at a Chinese restaurant? I would imagine most people have, but if you have not here is a little detail. After you have finished eating they will give you fortune cookies. Inside these crunchy cookies is a little slip of paper. On the paper will be a saying of fortune for you to read. There will also be your "lucky numbers or days" on the back. The sayings are sometimes clever, sometimes serious or even sometimes about your romantic future. My husband and I have always just laughed when reading some of them that we have gotten. Just as a side note, I am not the Chinese cuisine lover in the family. The thought hit me this morning as I was reading my Proverb for the day. Why not Proverb wisdom cookies? I love reading the book of Proverbs. I am still trying to absorb all the wisdom that I can from this book. There are just so many ideas of wisdom that are written in this book. So here are just a few that stood out to me that would make good bits of wisdom.
Proverbs 18:10, 12, 13, 19, 22, &24 (NKJV)
10 "The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe."
12 "Before destruction the heart of a man is haughty, and before honor is humility."
13 "He who answers a matter before he hears it, it is folly and shame to him."
19 "A brother offended is harder to win than a strong city, and contentions are like the bars of a castle."
[One of my favorite ones. :) ]
22 "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the LORD."
24 "A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."
Now to find a fortune cookie recipe.
Proverbs 18:10, 12, 13, 19, 22, &24 (NKJV)
10 "The name of the LORD is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe."
12 "Before destruction the heart of a man is haughty, and before honor is humility."
13 "He who answers a matter before he hears it, it is folly and shame to him."
19 "A brother offended is harder to win than a strong city, and contentions are like the bars of a castle."
[One of my favorite ones. :) ]
22 "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the LORD."
24 "A man who has friends must himself be friendly, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."
Now to find a fortune cookie recipe.
Friday
Fall Leaves and Learning Styles
Fall is one of my favorite times of the year. I love watching the color of the leaves change during the season. There is such beauty in the colors of the leaves. The colors range from deep reds to bright oranges and vivid yellows. If I were a painter, I would paint pictures of the trees in the fall. I love being surrounded by beautiful things. I am a very visual person. I learn best through seeing how things are done or the steps to complete a task. In studying the different learning styles I have learned that I am somewhat of an auditory learner as well. My children's learning styles are a combination of all the styles. One may be strong in one area while not at all in another area. It has been interesting to teach to their unique learning styles. My oldest is great at reading and language arts while my second oldest is better in math. This is one of the reasons I am glad that I am homeschooling them so that I can teach to their learning styles. I want them to love learning and to know that all through their lives they will be learning something new. I enjoy having them at home with me. I enjoy reading to them, singing songs with them or trying out a new science experiment. I find joy in teaching my children just like I find joy in watching the leaves change color in the fall. What do you find joy in?
Thursday
Learning Something New
Welcome to This Grace Place
Writing has always freed me to express my emotions and things that I have had to sort out. I hope to use this blog as a means of an electronic diary of sorts. I have been somewhat blogging about my family's homeschooling journey on Facebook, but I would like to write more and grow my writing abilities.
I love "talking" about all things homeschooling, books, learning new crafting techniques, and Biblical motherhood. It is my desire to be one who encourages through my writing efforts.
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